Attent

Never miss a moment. moment. birthday. anniversary. milestone. chance.

Attent remembers the birthdays, milestones, and small moments for you — so you can show up for the people around you.

Become attent today ↗
1,000+ people signed up for launch
Made in Amsterdam
For founders
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For parents
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For friends
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For partners
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For anyone who wants to show up
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For the people who matter
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For founders
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For parents
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For friends
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For partners
✦
For anyone who wants to show up
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For the people who matter
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SOUND FAMILIAR?

You want to be there for the people who matter. But life just keeps rolling on.

Become attent ↗

From forgetting
to showing up.

  • On time, never late — with enough lead time to actually do something nice.

  • Capture who really counts and what matters to them.

  • Birthdays, anniversaries, and small milestones — remembered automatically.

  • Suggestions that fit who they really are — from a message to a gesture.

  • Plan something with friends or family — without group-chat chaos.

  • Ideas for the right gesture at the right moment, tuned to who they are.

  • Your circle is yours. No ads, no tracking.

  • Works seamlessly on every device, online or off.

Show up for who matters ✦ Never too late again ✦ Thoughtful gestures ✦ Relationships that grow stronger ✦ Quiet reminders ✦ Real connection ✦ Attention without noise ✦ Show up for who matters ✦ Never too late again ✦ Thoughtful gestures ✦ Relationships that grow stronger ✦ Quiet reminders ✦ Real connection ✦ Attention without noise ✦
WHAT USERS SAY

“The small gestures I used to forget, I do now. And you can see it in how people respond.”

Daan Peters Founder, Amsterdam

“It never feels like an app that wants something from me. More like someone gently thinking along about the people I love.”

Tijmen Visser Father of two, Utrecht

“My girlfriend noticed right away. ‘You’ve suddenly become so thoughtful,’ she said. Well, yes.”

Jonas Bakker Developer, Tilburg

“I used to panic-buy flowers the day before. Now I plan, properly, weeks ahead.”

Sara de Wit Designer, Amsterdam

“It feels less like a productivity app and more like a quiet little nudge from a kind friend.”

Lotte Janssen Teacher, Rotterdam

“I’m the worst at remembering. Now I’m suddenly the friend who shows up.”

Mehmet Aydin Founder, Den Haag

“Less guilt, more gestures. Exactly what I was missing.”

Iris van Dijk Strategist, Haarlem

“My family hasn’t felt this looked-after in years. And I’m not even working harder at it.”

Pieter Mulder Engineer, Eindhoven
WHAT ATTENT DOES

Everything you
need to be there.

Attent combines smart reminders, personal context and thoughtful suggestions — so you can focus on the gesture itself, not on remembering it.

Smart reminders
Your circle
Milestones
Personal ideas
Together
Thoughtful gestures
Fully private
Always at hand
ATTENT
01 · SMART REMINDERS

On time, never late — with enough lead time to actually do something nice.

ATTENT
02 · YOUR CIRCLE

Capture who really counts and what matters to them.

ATTENT
03 · MILESTONES

Birthdays, anniversaries, and small milestones — remembered automatically.

ATTENT
04 · PERSONAL IDEAS

Suggestions that fit who they really are — from a message to a gesture.

ATTENT
05 · TOGETHER

Plan something with friends or family — without group-chat chaos.

ATTENT
06 · THOUGHTFUL GESTURES

Ideas for the right gesture at the right moment, tuned to who they are.

ATTENT
07 · FULLY PRIVATE

Your circle is yours. No ads, no tracking.

ATTENT
08 · ALWAYS AT HAND

Works seamlessly on every device, online or off.

FAQ

Everything you want
to know about Attent.

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  • Attent starts free. You can build your circle and set reminders right away, at no cost. For more advanced features like personal suggestions and using Attent together, there’s an optional premium subscription.

  • Everything you store in Attent is private by default — only visible to you. We don’t sell data to third parties and your circle is never used for advertising. Read our privacy statement for the full details.

  • Attent is available for iOS and Android. You can also use it through the browser.

  • Attent combines what you’ve shared about someone — their interests, style, and preferences — with smart suggestions. The more context you give, the better the ideas. You always have the final say.

  • Yes. With shared circles you can set up a circle together — handy for couples, families or friend groups who want to organise something together or keep track of the same people.

  • We’re currently in early access. Sign up to be the first to know when we go live — and to reserve your spot in the first wave of users.

  • Primarily for personal relationships — friends, family, partners. But many users also use it for professional contacts they genuinely want to keep up with, like mentors, valued clients, or colleagues they appreciate.